Thomas Wayne

Willoughby

It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Thomas Wayne Willoughby, who left this world peacefully on Friday, November 6th, 2026, at the age of 74. Born on a rare leap year day, February 29th, 1952, in his cherished hometown of Ahoskie, North Carolina, Thomas lived a life full of dedication, love, and passion.

A devoted father and grandfather, Thomas is survived by his loving sons, John (Lindsay) Willoughby and Michael (Lucy) Willoughby, and his treasured five grandchildren, Abigail, Nathan, Aiden, Gracin, and Nicholas. His legacy is carried forth by the family to whom he dedicated immeasurable love and wisdom.

Thomas was preceded in death by his beloved parents, Milton and Betty Willoughby, and his devoted spouse, Betty Willoughby, whose memories he held dear to his heart.

In his early years, Thomas achieved an Associate's Degree, which laid the foundation for his esteemed career. For 20 honorable years, Thomas served in the United States Army, where he exemplified courage and commitment, proudly upholding the values of his country. After his military career, he continued his service to the community as a Correctional Officer, where he was respected for his integrity and fairness.

A man of diverse interests, Thomas was a passionate history enthusiast with a particular fascination for the Civil War. A proud Civil War buff, he found joy and fulfillment participating in historical reenactments, where he brought the past to life with enthusiasm and precision. His love for history was rivaled only by his love for cats, who offered him companionship and comfort over the years.

Above all, Thomas treasured the moments spent with his family, cherishing the laughter and love shared with his children and grandchildren.

Arrangements have been thoughtfully provided by Miller & Van Essendelft Funeral Homes & Crematory in Edenton, where Thomas's life will be commemorated and his contributions to family, community, and country will be honored.

As we bid farewell to Thomas Wayne Willoughby, let us celebrate a life well-lived and a man deeply loved. His memory will forever be etched in the hearts of those who knew him.