Laura Ann Bartholomew

A Life Without Borders

Laura Ann Bartholomew’s story began in Great Falls, Montana, on November 22, 1944. As the daughter of an Air Force officer, her childhood was a whirlwind of movement, taking her from the beaches of Bermuda to the bustling markets of Tokyo. Some of her most cherished memories, however, were rooted in the soil of her grandparents' farm north of Havre, Montana. It was there that a "city girl" learned to pluck chickens, gather eggs, and find "rubies" in the hills—experiences that sparked a lifelong curiosity and a remarkable, hands-on resilience that would define her.

In 1965, Laura married Carl Bartholomew, beginning a sixty-year partnership built on love and shared adventure. As a CIA family, they navigated the world together, living in Cyprus, the Belgian Congo, Paraguay, Chile, Virginia, Colombia, and Bolivia. Laura was the heart of these overseas tours. Whether she was navigating Turkish checkpoints while pregnant or learning multiple languages to manage a household, she was the ultimate hostess, legendary for throwing the best parties and bringing people together. Above all, she created a sense of belonging in every corner of the globe, ensuring her three daughters—Debbie, Stephanie, and Dawn—thrived no matter where they landed.

Laura was a woman of vibrant energy and impeccable style. She was "all about manners," never sat still, and was always perfectly dressed with a love for makeup, jewelry, and ever-evolving hairstyles. A passionate golfer, she shared countless rounds with Carl, achieving the rare feat of golfing in all 50 U.S. states. Whether she was on the golf course, going on a safari in Kenya, skiing in the Chilean Andes, whitewater rafting the Colorado River, or camping across the United States, Paraguay, Chile, and Colombia, she was always up for the next adventure (provided it didn't involve a roller coaster).

Professionally, Laura was driven by a fierce work ethic. After years of supporting the mission abroad, she settled in Northern Virginia and began her own CIA career. Her dedication was never more evident than after 9/11, when she stepped up to work in the Counterterrorist Center, and later provided intelligence support for the Salt Lake City Winter Olympics. Even after facing health challenges in 2002, she continued to serve as a contractor for years, unwilling to leave the work she found so meaningful.

In retirement, Laura and Carl built a home on the water in Hertford, North Carolina, where she embraced "the cruising life." With over 500 days at sea, she and Carl spent their retirement continuing to explore the world, always returning home to the community and the family she adored. A dedicated member of her church and the Friends of the Creche, Laura’s faith and hospitality shone brightest during the Christmas season. She took immense joy in displaying her collection of over 300 nativity scenes, opening her home to friends and neighbors to share in the beauty and meaning of the season. She was the "best mom" and a best friend to her daughters, a loving wife, a loyal sister, and a doting grandmother who passed down her love of shopping and adventure to the next generation.

Laura was sassy, smart, and fiercely loyal. She loved her family, her church, her white wine, and her chocolate—and in recent years, she never turned down a good espresso martini. But her greatest joy was the life she built with Carl. Their sixty-year partnership was her anchor, and her deep, enduring love for him remained the guiding light of her life. She leaves behind a legacy of strength, elegance, and the reminder that life is meant to be lived to the fullest.

Service Information

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 11:00 am on Saturday, May 23, 2026, at St. Anne Catholic Church in Edenton, NC.

Following the Mass, the family invites everyone to join them for a reception in the Parish Hall for food and fellowship. The celebration of Laura's life will continue afterward at Edenton Bay Trading Company, where we will gather to share stories, toast to her memory, and celebrate a life lived to the fullest—just as Laura would have wanted.

Family & Legacy

Survived by:

● Her devoted husband of 60 years, Carl Bartholomew.

● Her daughters: Debbie, Stephanie (and husband Luke), and Dawn.

● Her cherished grandchildren: Victoria, Trevor, Evelyn, Jadyn, Nakeisha (and husband Tyler), Denise, and Cara.

● Her brother, Michael Baird (and wife Dallas).

Preceded in death by:

● Her parents, Rodney and Evelyn Catherine Baird.

● Her brother, Steve Baird (and wife Janet).

Memorial Contributions

In honor of Laura’s spirit of service and her love for her community, the family suggests donations be made to the Albemarle Pregnancy Resource Center & Clinic.

"Life is meant to be lived to the fullest."